The design of the St. Andrew’s Cross is a pretty perfect match for BDSM activities. It’s super sturdy, so it can hold someone’s arms and legs securely, spreading them out in a way that’s both a bit vulnerable but totally agreed upon.

This setup is great for all sorts of fun, from playing with different sensations to a little impact play to experimenting with who’s in charge. Plus, you can upgrade the cross with all kinds of extras like cuffs, ropes, or chains, making it even more versatile and exciting for everyone involved. It’s this kind of flexibility that really makes the St. Andrew’s Cross a hit in BDSM spaces.

They are also called an X-cross, X-frame, or saltire cross. There’s no difference in the design, just what people prefer to call it.

Originally, the St. Andrew’s Cross represented sacrifice and humility. Saint Andrew, feeling unworthy of a crucifixion similar to Christ’s, chose an X-shaped cross for his execution in Patras, Greece. This emblem of martyrdom later became Scotland’s national symbol, encapsulating themes of endurance and the link between enduring hardship and achieving victory.

Fast forward to more recent times, it crossed over into the BDSM scene. But the “how” remains a mystery – like half of its pages were ripped out of a historical novel. No one can say exactly how or when it started, but by the time the 20th century set in, this symbol for ancient sacrifice had begun appearing in all sorts of kinky places. It became a fixture in the BDSM world and changed from a super-secretive underground rendezvous to something far more open and accepting.

The X-shaped cross had utility far beyond its religious significance. It was a practical, down-to-earth form for farm or animal barricades. This design gave farmers easy access while maintaining robust barriers. The X-structure, by virtue of its shape, offered stability and strength, making it an ideal choice for outdoor use and durability.

These ideas can help you customize and enhance your BDSM cross experiences even more, making each session unique and tailored to the desires and limits of everyone involved.

• Choosing Position: Think about whether you wanna have your partner face you or away. Each option sets a different vibe and dynamic for what’s about to go down.

• Handcuffs and Ropes: Get those wrists and ankles secured. You can go with classic leather cuffs or maybe try out some shibari ropes for a more exotic touch. Just make sure they’re snug but comfy.

• Ropes for More Than Just Tying: Speaking of ropes, they’re not just for restraining people. There have been some wild scenes where people used them in all sorts of ways, like for an erotic exorcism. Now that’s gotta be a wild night!

• Get Your Imagination Going: You could edge them, tickle them, or maybe even go all out with some impact play. Or a sensual massage sounds nice too. Just remember, with great power comes great responsibility, especially when it comes to stuff like water bondage.

• Tech Meets Kink: App-controlled sex toys can take things to the next level. You can control the rhythm and intensity from your phone. Yummy.

• Hands-Free Fun: Don’t forget about wearable sex toys. They stay in place, leaving your hands free to explore other areas or just enjoy the show.

• Spinning Crosses: It’s like having a rotating stage for your play. It gives you all sorts of new angles and possibilities to experiment with.

• Temperature Play: You can spice things up by using warm wax or ice cubes on your partner. The contrast between the heat and cold can be super thrilling, especially when they’re restrained and immersed in the experience.

• Sensory Deprivation: To heighten the senses, try using blindfolds or headphones with a custom playlist. This will make them focus more on the sensations.

• Feather Teasing: Use feathers or soft items to gently brush against their skin. This light touch can be super stimulating, especially when it’s mixed with more intense sensations.

• Dirty Talk: Chat dirty or give commands during the scene. The psychological aspect of being restrained on the cross and hearing dominating or teasing words can be a huge turn-on.

• Mirror Action: If they’re facing away from you, put a mirror in front of them so they can watch what’s going on and see your reactions.

• Aftercare Stations: Set up a cozy area nearby where they can relax and unwind after the fun. Seeing this area reminds them that you’ll take care of them after the session, giving them some psychological comfort.

• Scented Atmosphere: Use candles or essential oil diffusers to create various atmospheres with different scents. It’s a great way to set the mood.